The difference between a great groom wedding speech and that which is just plain terrible is that the one that is great has been done by a person that just put in a little more effort than the others. Just a little and not much more. But when they did put in the effort it was with complete and utter focus and that is what helped them nail the speech and it was exactly what helped them become the groom that people will refer back to for years to come down the lane. This is something that you must really push yourself to understanding if you want to be the person that people respect and appreciate all the time. You must be willing to do this right now if you want to become a great person, and do it well like it was the last ever speech you were ever going to give.